I give talks on sexuality, modern relationships, and personal empowerment.
Drawing on my performance, speaking, and coaching skills, liberally mixed with my personal insights and life learnings, I give talks on a selection of topics mostly focused on being more free in yourself and in your interactions with those people special to you.
My talks fit into 30- or 60-minute slots and include an non-obligatory Q&A session afterwards.
Talks and Discussions:
- Out of the Box
- relationships without labels – intro to multipartner intimacy; introducing the concept and practical application of polyamory/relationship anarchy/non-monogamy
- modern relationship dynamics – basic relationship skills that improve every relationship (platonic, romantic, or otherwise)
- evolving your relationships – taking more personal responsibility for yourself and your role in your relationships.
- the grace of gender – the nuances of gender presentation and identification, gender and biology, the evolving concept of gender
- Being Dusty: evolving our world
- based on the Burning Man principles, as explored in my book “Being Dusty”, this talk opens up possibilities of living in a more communal, conscious, independent, self-reliant, pragmatic way.
- A Taste for Kink
- introduction and basic exploration of safe and consensual kinky sex
- safe sex and multiple partners
- the spectrum of sexuality – exploring the spectrum of sexual orientation, preferences, presentation, from asexuality to hyper-sexuality
- Creation begins with you – talks based on chapters from my books “Creation begins with you” and “Level Up”
- Creation begins with you – introducing the concept of self-empowerment and how much more influence we have on our own lives
- Adulting Made Easy – this short talk helps change perspectives from the age-old “adulting is hard” sentiment to a “life can be simpler and easier” sentiment.
- Find Your Soul, Mate – short talk on your role in your own life as it relates to romantic / life-partner relationships
- Level Up – advanced concepts for deliberate creators
- Sensual Touch
- sensual connection – an hour long intimacy process with two people taking turns receiving and giving attention. This workshop can be adapted as a casual outdoors practice with loose fitting clothing, or in a more intimate clothing-optional setting.
- sensual massage – Receive and learn to give your lover (or friend) an intimate non-sexual, extremely connected, sensual massage session
- Head and shoulder massage – learn to give a basic head and shoulder massage (based on Ayurvedic and shiatsu practices)
- Shake it up! – adaptable energising exercises for loose clothing / clothing optional settings
- jump and stretch – a spiritually focused fun aerobic class aimed at getting people of any fitness level to loosen up their bodies and minds, and get back in touch with their inner child energy.
- confidence boosters – basic child-friendly acting exercises to help get people out of their shells
If there’s anything specific you want for the event, let me know, otherwise I have pretty much all the workshops and talks cued up and can deliver any almost on the fly (I like to give myself at least 24 hours to prepare myself).