Building and maintaining a positive attitude to life, to sex, to your body and to your community

27 August 2013

Defending Multi-partner Relationships

This article was published recently advocating, in its simple view, that the whole polyamory movement isn’t doing much for the sexual revolution or women’s rights. Here […]
19 November 2013

The Poly Palooza!

After a long and eventful few days, Sunday afternoon winded down the weekend with a relaxing gathering for the Johannesburg leg of South Africa’s Polyamory group. The last one for this year. And the last one organised by ctrl-Alt-sex’er, Avri, as me and mey compadres take over for 2014.
20 November 2013

We Need A Group?!

Why the sense of community is important to foster and maintain, particularly amongst poly-oriented people and other fringe sub-cultures.
22 November 2013

What is Natural?

If you're going to reject something for not being natural, why aren't you naked?
23 November 2013

Exploring Boundaries Through Social Cuddling

While I may be something of an expert cuddler, this was my first introduction to an officially organised, internationally-established Cuddly Party. This is a professionally facilitated space encouraging connection, boundary respect, and freestyle cuddling.
18 January 2014

I Believe That We’re All A Little Weird

Unique New York, Unique New York. It’s a vocal exercise. Try it. Pronounce the words fully, enunciating each syllable. You neek, Neyoo York. Pretty cool, hey? […]
27 December 2014

Everyone’s on Their Own Journey

This is something that comes up for me a fair amount. I get very lost in my own processes and needs and desires and life that I sometimes forget that everybody is on their own journey.
28 July 2015

Chatting about Polyamory on Radio 702

Spent this evening chatting with Radio 702‘s Aubrey Sibusiso Masango about Polyamory. via My Facebook Page