ctrl-Alt-sex

Building and maintaining a positive attitude to life, to sex, to your body and to your community

7 March 2017

BoinQ polyamory podcast (part 2)

Part 2 of the intro to polyamory conversation on BoinQ.co.za
21 February 2017

BoinQ polyamory podcast (part 1)

Part 1 of the intro to polyamory conversation on BoinQ.co.za
2 March 2016

Your naked body is not a crime

Your naked body is not a crime. You are beheld as beautiful, as you are, as you were born and formed in the same manner as […]
28 July 2015

Chatting about Polyamory on Radio 702

Spent this evening chatting with Radio 702‘s Aubrey Sibusiso Masango about Polyamory. via My Facebook Page
27 December 2014

Everyone’s on Their Own Journey

This is something that comes up for me a fair amount. I get very lost in my own processes and needs and desires and life that I sometimes forget that everybody is on their own journey.
18 January 2014

I Believe That We’re All A Little Weird

Unique New York, Unique New York. It’s a vocal exercise. Try it. Pronounce the words fully, enunciating each syllable. You neek, Neyoo York. Pretty cool, hey? […]
23 November 2013

Exploring Boundaries Through Social Cuddling

While I may be something of an expert cuddler, this was my first introduction to an officially organised, internationally-established Cuddly Party. This is a professionally facilitated space encouraging connection, boundary respect, and freestyle cuddling.
22 November 2013

What is Natural?

If you're going to reject something for not being natural, why aren't you naked?