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21 May 2018

Why Do We Need A Decompression?

A kid wanted to know why Afrikaburn goers needed a decompression. I told him why, after experiencing expressive freedom, default life can be jarring.
2 May 2018

What is Afrikaburn?

Afrikaburn is more than a fancy dress party in the middle of nowhere. It is a glimpse of the life and culture that can become a new default.
19 Jul 2017

Harden The Fuck Up

In January of this year, I began writing yet another book, a cathartic process coming to terms with the darkness within me. Here is where I begin sharing this work with the world.
7 Mar 2017

BoinQ polyamory podcast (part 2)

Part 2 of the intro to polyamory conversation on BoinQ.co.za
21 Feb 2017

BoinQ polyamory podcast (part 1)

Part 1 of the intro to polyamory conversation on BoinQ.co.za
30 Dec 2016

As the clock turns…

How I've treated this year that is 2016 CE, making it a phenomenal year of continuing growth and adventure.
23 Nov 2013

Exploring Boundaries Through Social Cuddling

While I may be something of an expert cuddler, this was my first introduction to an officially organised, internationally-established Cuddly Party. This is a professionally facilitated space encouraging connection, boundary respect, and freestyle cuddling.
19 Nov 2013

The Poly Palooza!

After a long and eventful few days, Sunday afternoon winded down the weekend with a relaxing gathering for the Johannesburg leg of South Africa’s Polyamory group. The last one for this year. And the last one organised by ctrl-Alt-sex’er, Avri, as me and mey compadres take over for 2014.
17 Nov 2013

Why so Serious?

Life is a joke. We are the players of a performance, playing our respective roles, filling in our piece of the story, together weaving a tapestry […]