relationships

1 October 2007

Committed Couple

Ceremonies, like those that officiate a marriage, are extremely important not only to the pair entering said union but, equally, to their families and closer friends. It seems to me that often the ceremony is given far more importance than the marriage itself.
1 December 2007

Sacred Romances

While the vast majority of humans in today’s society have gotten over this idea of elitism when it comes to romances, there are still many people […]
14 February 2011

Ruthless Love

Sorry to burst bubbles but if you think love is entirely la la and full of scented rose petals, you’re very much mistaken. Real love is […]
27 August 2013

Defending Multi-partner Relationships

This article was published recently advocating, in its simple view, that the whole polyamory movement isn’t doing much for the sexual revolution or women’s rights. Here […]
19 November 2013

The Poly Palooza!

After a long and eventful few days, Sunday afternoon winded down the weekend with a relaxing gathering for the Johannesburg leg of South Africa’s Polyamory group. The last one for this year. And the last one organised by ctrl-Alt-sex’er, Avri, as me and mey compadres take over for 2014.
23 November 2013

Exploring Boundaries Through Social Cuddling

While I may be something of an expert cuddler, this was my first introduction to an officially organised, internationally-established Cuddly Party. This is a professionally facilitated space encouraging connection, boundary respect, and freestyle cuddling.
27 December 2014

Everyone’s on Their Own Journey

This is something that comes up for me a fair amount. I get very lost in my own processes and needs and desires and life that I sometimes forget that everybody is on their own journey.
29 July 2016

My Father’s War (2016)

A bit of info about My Father's War which premiered on 28 July 2014 and opens nationwide on 5 August 2014.