relationships

23 May 2018

Being Dusty: Living The Principles

A guide to making the principles of Afrikaburn (and Burning Man) a regular part of our daily life.
7 March 2017

BoinQ polyamory podcast (part 2)

Part 2 of the intro to polyamory conversation on BoinQ.co.za
21 February 2017

BoinQ polyamory podcast (part 1)

Part 1 of the intro to polyamory conversation on BoinQ.co.za
29 July 2016

My Father’s War (2016)

A bit of info about My Father's War which premiered on 28 July 2014 and opens nationwide on 5 August 2014.
27 December 2014

Everyone’s on Their Own Journey

This is something that comes up for me a fair amount. I get very lost in my own processes and needs and desires and life that I sometimes forget that everybody is on their own journey.
23 November 2013

Exploring Boundaries Through Social Cuddling

While I may be something of an expert cuddler, this was my first introduction to an officially organised, internationally-established Cuddly Party. This is a professionally facilitated space encouraging connection, boundary respect, and freestyle cuddling.
19 November 2013

The Poly Palooza!

After a long and eventful few days, Sunday afternoon winded down the weekend with a relaxing gathering for the Johannesburg leg of South Africa’s Polyamory group. The last one for this year. And the last one organised by ctrl-Alt-sex’er, Avri, as me and mey compadres take over for 2014.
27 August 2013

Defending Multi-partner Relationships

This article was published recently advocating, in its simple view, that the whole polyamory movement isn’t doing much for the sexual revolution or women’s rights. Here […]