Idle Thoughts

It baffles the mind, after so many magnificent humans have proved that standing out is just so awesome, how much effort continues to be poured into […]

There are a billion reasons in the world today to be miserable. There are also a billion reasons in the world today to be in awe. […]

We don’t really need people to understand us. We just need to stop using other people as an excuse for our decisions.

The older I get the less eggshells I feel I need underfoot.

My situation does not define me.Who I am shines through any situation. #idlethoughts #itsTakenALongTimeToBelieveInMyself #aboutTimeImilkedIt

There’s always going to be people who appreciate me and those who don’t. And it’s an obvious waste of time trying to appease the latter. #idlethoughts […]

Your kids and your government and your employment and your pets must have proved to you by now that nobody wants to be ordered around. By […]

The majority of the world still trades five days of their week to be able to enjoy the remaining two, and most often they don’t even […]

I never really understood why age was an excuse for not being up to date with life…

I want everyone to live their lives to the fullest. But, you know, consensually. In your own time. At your own pace. #idlethoughts #getReadyToBeReadyToBeReadyForYourDreams #thisIsYourYearYourMonthYourWeekYourDay #youShouldOnlyBeFreeIfYouWantToBe

Nothing is ever black and white. Yes, there is a black and there is a white, and there is a whole spectrum in between. #idlethoughts #lifeIsASpectrumOfABunchOfSpectrums […]

Every new habit begins with the decision to change. Every habit becomes established by honouring that decision every day hence.

Maybe you’re not procrastinating. Maybe you’re biding your time, gathering your resources, settling your thoughts, and getting ready to act at the right moment. #idlethoughts #practicemakesprogress […]

Wondering how many friends are no longer with us because they didn’t agree to 2023’s tees and cees.

Not gonna lie. THIS is my most favourite year yet!

Hollow chocolates have got to be the cheapest bullshit chocolate forms in existence! Fill my chocies with something tastier than air, ya bastards! #idlethoughts #iBlameCapitalism #atLeastPumpSomeCaramelInThere […]

Even if he didn’t exist in our timeline, Yeshua the Christ had a far more evolved understanding of God than the Christians of today do. #idlethoughts […]

Y’all talk a big lot about being free-thinking rebels but in the here and now, on planet Earth 1218, most of y’all are just storm trooping […]

It is totally selfish to prioritise your own self and life! And that’s not a bad thing at all.

Freedom comes from progressively identifying and outgrowing your limitations.

It would be so great if you’d just live your lives and not limit yourselves to the beliefs of others, thanks.

More Earthlings in more areas of the world are experiencing more freedom and joy than ever before.

We are, today, on the leading edge of what has become. We’re also on the trailing edge of what is becoming.

You can always adjust your mindset and behaviour now, little by little, healing by healing, step by baby step, towards your preferences instead of your conditioning.

For me, the idea of Ubuntu is simple. We are all different, living our uniquely individual lives together as one community. One global loving community. Idylls, yeah?

Are y’all ready to accept that we’re never going to agree on everything, so let’s maybe stop trying, yeah.

I want to live in a world where none of my fellow humans are ever shamed nor criminilised for who they naturally are.

The only times you can’t speak about religion or politics or sex are when you’re among people too immature to converse like adults.

Why would we let small people limit how big we can be?

It might be worth considering that people can’t ever really tell YOU what to do. They can only tell you what THEY would possibly do in […]

Just because “they” said something doesn’t mean what’s said was of any relevance. You see, the truth is, people are mostly idiots just pretending we know […]

If you want to be treated like a mature, responsible, stable adult, maybe make the attempt to be that person. #idlethoughts #humanAdultsAreSoTerriblyInsecure #letTheHealingHappen

People hate that you can walk away from them whenever you want and, yet, they’ll take for granted when you choose to stay. #idlethoughts #appreciateYourPeople #appreciateYourSelf

I think that people who’d been labelled with ADHD are simply people who’ve evolved an immunity to systematic, linear living #idlethoughts #itReallyIsTimeToRetireThisArchaicWayOfLiving #theFutureIsVAST

My array of friends are diverse and varied in their lifestyles, but you wanna know what’s cool about us? We don’t hate on each other. We […]

For at least 2 or 3 thousand years now, for those who desired change, a key tenet has been: affect what is in your power to […]

When I think of The 1%, I don’t think of the people with the most money. I think of the people with the most peace. #idlethoughts […]

A human can be rich in their health, rich in their relationships, rich in their mind, rich in their heart, and rich in their connection with […]

If you aren’t regularly envisioning yourself as a infinitillionaire who is worthy of all the love and pleasure in the universe, you’re playing small. #idlethoughts #justKiddingYouBeAsLargeOrMediumOrSmallAsYouDare […]

You don’t really have to “try to be yourself”. You ARE yourself. You’ve just got to stop not being yourself. #idlethoughts #justBeYou #followTheJoysOfYourHeartAndYouWillFindYourselfThere

Not being completely one’s self is a useful phase for anyone to help them realise who they really are. But it is also a phase that […]

You came into this world full of purpose.Your current mission, if you are like most human adults, is simply to remember that. #idlethoughts #learningToLife #themThingsWhatMakesYourHeartSingAreYourPurpose

When you are more excited that you got to open your eyes this morning than if you were given a billion dollars, well, then you KNOW […]

The truly powerful demonstrate their power in what they do for themselves, their people, and their world. The truly powerful don’t need to proclaim that power. […]

Let’s not confuse being powerful with being a bully. The truly powerful don’t need to convince anyone that they have power. #idlethoughts #youEverSeenAsumarai #respectbasedLeadershipWinsEverytime

Just because a thought is in your head, doesn’t mean it’s in anyone else’s. Communicate all of the thoughts that are necessary to build the story […]

Hmmm, what would the world be like if instead of preying on other people’s weaknesses, we just healed our own? #idlethoughts #mightPutTheSlaveCorpsOutOfBusiness #imagineAworldThatNoLongerNeededHealers

Since I began deliberately enjoying my life, my life has got exponentially enjoyable. #idlethoughts #iMeanLifeIsPrettySweet #mustBeSomethingToDoWithThisLawOfAttractionThing #karmaFTWbaby

I don’t even wonder what anybody is thinking any more. If they don’t want to enthusiastically share their thoughts with me, those thoughts are obviously not […]

Pay attention to your own wordsYou’re giving yourself clues everyday. #idlethoughts #youShouldDoWhatYouSayNotWhatYouDo #doYouReallyNotCareAboutThatThingYouRepeatedSayYouDontCareAbout

Nobody has to change their ways for me to believe in myself.Nobody has to think good of me for me to believe in myself.Nobody has to […]

When you’ve meditated often enough, you’ll realise there’s no limit to how peaceful and centred one can be. It just gets better and better. #idlethoughts #stillnessIsTheMostPowerfulStateYouCanBe […]

I have a different take on morality than most. You’re right when you are honouring and respecting yourself. You’re wrong when you’re not. #idlethoughts #letNobodyStandInYourWayOfAGreatAndHappyLife #notEvenYourself […]

My life has been a study in living. #idlethoughts #learningToLife #foreverFuckingAroundAndFiguringOutWhatWorks

A lot of people choose to priotise seeking understanding over seeking pleasure. I think that understanding that pleasure is the fundamental principle of life will serve […]

The fact that we’ve got to convince ourselves to feel good in any given moment is ridiculous. #idlethoughts #justFeelGood #weDontNeedAReason

The Universe has a persistent habit of either showing us the paths to our desires or the reasons why we can’t see the paths to our […]

Know what you want and be aware of what is. And if what is doesn’t match what you want, prioritise what you want until what is […]

Let’s not confuse self-control with self-restraint. Control yourself towards your desires, don’t restrain yourself from them. #idlethoughts #focusYourselfTowardsWhateverYouWant #justChooseSomethingThatExcitesYouForFucksSake

The true measure of your love for another is in your ability to allow them their freedom. #idlethoughts #loveThemAndLetThemGoToChooseTheirOwnWay #andMayThatWayMeanderDeliciouslyWithYourOwnWay

Instead of being upset that the people around you aren’t on your wavelength, spend more time with people who are. #idlethoughts #yourVibeAttractsYourTribe #letYourWeirdLittleFlagFly

The active global economy is pretty much founded on competition…. between Davids and Goliaths. #idlethoughts #rootingForAllTheDavidsOutThere #someGoliathsUsedToBeDavidsToo

You should never be afraid of the people who are there to protect you. If you are afraid, if those who claim to protect you actually […]

I’m super curious. What is the point of complaining about people behind their backs to other people who can do nothing about it except, possibly, bitch […]

Lighthearted fun is a good thing. Playing is a good thing. Anyone who thinks life is SUPPOSED to be serious and sombre has seriously not been […]

I’m at that age when I refuse to step outside of love just because others have. Just saying. #idlethoughts #loveIsMyReligionAndIamRatherDevout #youAreWelcomeToHateJustDontExpectMeTo

For when you’re ready to hear this: You are the biggest reason you don’t have everything you want in your life right now. #idlethoughts #justTalkingToMySelf #remindersThatLifeFollowsOurLead

Don’t spend your days trying to be the best football player when you’d rather be crocheting jerseys. #idlethoughts #doMoreOfWhatNourishesYourHeart #doOnlyWhatNourishesYourHeart #lifeIsTooShortAndDiverseToWasteYourTimeWhileLivingIt

It should be obvious that I’m not going to lessen myself just because other people can’t handle all of me. I mean, that’s totally a them-problem, […]

One shouldn’t mix working people with playful people. They do NOT go together #idlethoughts #itIsMuchMorePleasureableToWorkWithPlayfulPeople #choosingOurDestiniesWithMoreCare

I realised that life is life. I am where I am. It really is what it is. There’s no pausing. There’s no stopping. You just gotta […]

Can you imagine this life when all us adults show off more of the maturity we crow about having? #idlethoughts #thisLifeIsYoursAndYoursAlone #beYourBest #makeYourselfProud

Choice isn’t an illusion. You are making millions of choices everyday.The illusion is that you’re doing it consciously. Wake up. #idlethoughts #chooseYourLifeDeliberately #believeInWhatMakesMostSenseToYou #focusOnYourChosenDestinyAndChooseYourDayToDayAppropriately

Choice is indeed an illusion. The most loving and happiest options are always the most obviously best choices, né. #idlethoughts #chooseYourFucks #chooseYourLife #chooseForYou #chooseFromLove

People who are accustomed to giving up will not tell you to keep going. So I will. Keep going. You’re doing so much better than you […]

Stop arguing with people who are not worth your time. Also…, anybody who picks arguments with you is not worth your time. #idlethoughts #loveYourSelfEnoughToWalkAway

Life is no different to an artist’s canvas; you get better, with time and experience and experimentation, at knowing what you want to showcase with your […]

I encourage reasonless thankfulness. #idlethoughts #appreciatingLifeJustBecauseWeAreAlive #likeYoungHumansAndOtherAnimalsDo

Life is like a movie. You’re kinda the star. You also get to choose the genre every day. Will it be a tragic drama today or […]

The difference between words and actions have been clearly illustrated over the past decades by those who say they’re taking the red pill and those who […]

Actions speak volumes louder than words but us people give so much importance to symbols and language that we let unnecessary behaviour last far longer than […]

“It’s not like it used to be.”Why yes, captain obvious, nothing ever is. Nothing can be. ALL things change. Get with it, yo. Keep up with […]

Don’t treat people how you want to be treated, you narcissistic chop.Treat people how THEY want to be treated. #idlethoughts #everyoneIsAUniqueSnowflake #payAttentionToTheNeedsOfTheIndividualInsteadOfTheAssumptionsOfTheStereotype

You will never feel betrayed by anyone if you trust that everyone will be and do what’s best for themselves. Like they always should. #idlethoughts #andYouBeWhatIsBestForYou […]

If you want a compelling reason to not give a flying fuck what anyone thinks about you, know that most people think negatively about almost everything. […]

I often refer to us and them. I want to clarify when I say “us”, I mean we people who love more than hate. And them […]

My intention in sharing all of these words with you here and in my books is not to teach you. My intention is to entertain and […]

Why would we let small-minded people limit how expansive we can be? #idlethoughts #liveLarger #beFreer #listenToYourHeartAndNotSmallPeopleBeingLoud

Laws have been created to control and restrict, not uplift and empower. It’s time to create our laws from a space of love instead of a […]

It’s time to live with heart. It’s time to live with love. It’s time to live like your life depends on it. #idlethoughts #yourLifeIsWorthLife #doYouEvenKnowHowValuableLifeIs #itIsImmeasurable

Patriots would probably hate that I love my world much, much more than my country’s politics. #idlethoughts #weAreAllHuman #weAreAllEarthlings

Give a prisoner enough privileges and they’ll forget they’re confined. Same practice for employees and citizens. #idlethoughts #freedomMeansFreeToBeYouWheneverWherever #beTheOneWhoControlsYourLife

Let happiness not be your driving force. Let your desires inspire your actions. Let happiness simply be the consequence of you being on track. #idlethoughts #emotionsAreMoreOfACompassTypeOfThing […]

I used to be so addicted to misery that it was difficult to see the light from within the darkness. Nowadays, I’m so addicted to excitement […]

In case you’re ever wondering why I remain happy and playful and at peace while others aren’t, it’s because I spent quite a large amount of […]

Life isn’t primarily about function. Life is primarily about art, about creation, about expression. Life is messy. Life is curvy. Life is weird. It’s time to […]

We are all rebels, rebelling against the programming. We are all free spirits, demonstrating our freedom. #idlethoughts #liveYourLife #thatsIt

It’s an odd thing that people think growth and improvement is hard work when it’s just the natural consequence of living Seriously, watch kids, those ones […]

Are y’all still sorting your desires according to what your society, religion, politicians, and families have decided are good or bad? Or are you simply living […]

Sacrificing our comfort to make life easier for people who don’t care that we’re not comfortable is a habit we can all break. #idlethoughts #fuckTheirBoundaries #freeYourLife

I’ve seen Hindus living phenomenally satisfied lives. I’ve seen Muslims living phenomenal lives. Jewish people. Buddhists. Wiccans. Spiritualists. Agnostics. Atheists. A whole whack of people following […]

It’s so much easier to mix business with pleasure when your business is a pleasure #idlethoughts #liveTheLifeYouWantToLive #getPaidToBeYou #yeWhoSayYouCantHaveYourCakeAndEatItDontKnowHowCakesWork

Turns out I’m quite a tough cookie.Young me would be proud #idlethoughts #neverStopGrowing #letLifeBeWonderful

I cannot express how gleefully happy I get when I can find the perfect GIF response within seconds. Oooooh! Tingles! #idlethoughts #itsTheSimpleThings #aJoyfulLifeIsFilledWithJoys

Every romcom shows you that the best romances are when you care for each other as friends first, and y’all still think zoning is a thing. Tsk tsk.

Trying the exact same thing with the same people in the same places after failing is silly. Trying something different to achieve the same result is […]

Every human who is alive or has ever been alive for longer than a year has made much more than a few mistakes simply in their […]

We’ve become so accustomed to things not going well that things going well is seen as some sort of miracle. There’s a huge flaw here. #idlethoughts […]

So. When you’re feeling miserable, instead of trying to force any happiness, do what you can, within your capacity, to just feel a little better. Better […]

“Toxic positivity” is only toxic to people who don’t yet know how easy it can be to be positive. Being positive doesn’t mean being happy 24/7 […]

What do you think is more toxic?Your criticism of negativity or your criticism of positivity?Okay, here’s a clue. Any criticism that serves to put down rather […]

“What doesn’t kill me makes me stronger” is an attitude, not an absolute reality.What doesn’t kill you could make you physically weaker. What you get to […]

Shine your light so brightly that you don’t notice when others don’t. #idlethoughts #letLoveOut #yourVibeAttractsYourTribe

There is no body in existence who compares to me. Likewise with you.Own it. #idlethoughts #youAreAUniqueLittleSnowflake #youAreAUniqueLittleYou #lifeFollowsYourLead

How successful am I at life?Well, I’m 100% alive so I’d say I’m 100% successful. Tick. What’s next? #idlethoughts #successIsRelativeAndPersonal #defineItForYourself #letYourDesiresGuideYourLife

I put the imp in important. #idlethoughts #whatMyFriendsThinkOfMe #iKindaAmTho

All my friends who are struggling with being hetero, mono and/or cis in this progressive and diverse, exotic world, I will light a candle for you […]

Bitch, please! I have a penis and I live in a patriarchy; I can wear whatever the fuck I want to. #idlethoughts #justBeingAManInAMansWorldProvingThatMenCanDoAnything #arentWeAllHumanYet #beBoldlyUnapologeticallyConfidentlyProudlyYou #disruptingThePatriachy

Being less of a man made me more of a human. And I’m okay with that. #idlethoughts #justAhumanBeingHuman #humanityIsMyFamily #disruptingThePatriachy

My most preferred pronouns are I, me, we, and us. #idlethoughts #loveIsMyReligion #weAreAllHuman #theOtherPronounsAreAllRatherAwesomeToo #anyPronounsSuitMe

Just watched the GIJoe movie and the most realistic scene was all the egoistic nuclear world leaders in one room choosing to sacrifice their compatriots to […]

To me, the words “God” and “Energy” and “Everything” all describe the same thing. #idlethoughts #loveIsMyReligion #godIsNatureIsSpiritIsEnergyIsEternalIsEverything

God is an observer, you fools. They gave us free will and are reveling in the entertainment. #idlethoughts #howSillyIsOurWorld #doGodsEatPopcorn #ofCourseGodsEatAnything #chooseYourWillThatIsFreeToBeChosen #atleastbeEntertainingForFuckSakes

Yes, my dears, God is a non-binary they/them who identifies as Everything. #idlethoughts #didYouReallyThinkAllThatIsWouldReduceThemselvesToTheNarrowLimitsOfHeterobinarynormatives

God is an observer, you fools. They gave us free will and are reveling in the entertainment. #idlethoughts #howSillyIsOurWorld #loveIsMyReligion #thatswhyyourwillismywill #atleastbeEntertainingForFuckSakes

I have stories to tell but no scars to show. They’ve all healed nicely. #idlethoughts #itsPossible #whatDidntKillUsMadeUsStronger

I grew up in a world that values competition and comparison, and matured into someone who values collaboration and uniqueness. #idlethoughts #weAreAllHuman #weAreAllInThisTogether #loveIsMyReligion #humanityIsMyFamily

Just because other people chose conformity doesn’t mean you have to. #idlethoughts #weirdosAreTheBest #liveYourOwnLifeFromYourHeartForYourself #youDoYouBoo

Humans in general are beautiful but I got to say that exhibitionists are ESPECIALLY gorgeous #idlethoughts #bodypositivity #yallAreAllGorgeousBeings

Do you want to fit in or stand out? #idlethoughts #youDoYouBoo #andGoFullTiltEitherWay

Adults be like “why would you enjoy what life has as to offer when there’s so much to struggle for?” #idlethoughts #howSillyIsOurWorld #chooseYourFucksYo

Driving in the fast lane is scary for anyone who’s never driven but is an absolute breeze for a Formula 1 pro. In other words, you […]

Independence is seen as rebellious by the people who wish to keep you dependent on them. #idlethoughts #hardTruths #orJustArbitraryMusings

Positive people are merely people who prioritise feeling better over feeling worse. #idlethoughts #itsAllRelative #peopleBeingPeople #followYourBliss #happinessIsASpectrum

Happiness can be achieved by letting go of everything that doesn’t support your happiness. #idlethoughts #chooseYourFucks #letYourLifeBeAsWonderfulAsYouDareItToBe

Sometimes you’ve just got to do the things that excite you the most. #idlethoughts #stopfightingyourfearsandembraceyourexcitements #thisLifeThingIsForLiving #goLiveSomeLife

You can be ready for anything, when you take the time to prepare yourself. Here’s a tip though:Don’t just prepare yourself for problematic situations.Prepare yourself for […]

Care less about the things that stress you and more about the things that invigorate you. #idlethoughts #chooseYourFucks #whatYouFocusMoreOnWillBecomeMoreToFocusOn

Life will keep giving you situations to react to or to grow from. And the most wonderful thing is that you get to decide which. #idlethoughts […]

You have the choice, the chance, to take the blue pill or the red pill every day of your life. #idlethoughts #chooseYourDestiny #letYourLifeBeAsWonderfulAsYouDareItToBe #freeYourSelfToThinkForYourself #everydayIsAnotherChanceToBeBetter

You are reaping what you sow, every moment of every day, so commit to sowing better mental seeds in every moment, too. #idlethoughts #chooseYourThoughts #chooseForYou #dareToDreamLiveToInspire

We are living this life thing together.Let’s behave as a community instead of enemies forced to live on the same world. #idlethoughts #loveIsMyReligion #weAreAllHuman #howSillyIsOurWorld

There’s no reason to believe anyone who doesn’t believe in you. #idlethoughts #youAreLove #youDeserveEverythingYouDesire #ignoreTheNaysayers #believeInYourDreams #merryEverything

There’s a rule in older people’s heads that goes something like “those people who are not like me are wrong. Or if they’re not wrong, then […]

I wish for everyone to stop believing that normal is what they aren’t. It’s the end of 2021. Normal is whatever and whoever you are. #idlethoughts […]

We’ll progress faster when we focus less on fixing the past and more on building our future. #idlethoughts #nowIsTheMomentOfPower #nowIsAllYouveGot #letsBuildABetterFuture

Dear politicians. If you all want what’s best for the country, wouldn’t it make sense to collaborate instead of working against each other. And if you […]

It was never about competition.We can all do anything.How do you compete with that? #idlethoughts #itsTimeToChange #itsTimeToCollaborate #itsTimeToBelieveInYourselves

Don’t let what’s done be the reason not to enjoy what’s left. #idlethoughts #liveYourLifeNow #nowIsAllYouveGot

You can literally believe anything you want to about death. There’s a 99.9% chance nobody’s gonna disprove you. #idlethoughts #youGetToDecideWhatIdeasHappenInsideYourOwnHead #liveFromYourHeart #letYourSelfBeAtPeace

I sometimes still giggle at that catastrophic quagmire that was the Avocado toast era.You know. Those scrumptious, expensive breakfasts that crippled the millennials. #idlethoughts #howSillyIsOurWorld #tellMeAgainHowToastAndCoffeeAreLuxuryPurchases

Celebrating the human body, sexuality, individuality, humour, and comradery are all safe for any work environment that I’d want to be a part of. #idlethoughts #safeMeansSomethingDifferentInCorporate […]

Biggest advantage of being gender-non-conforming and omnisexual?Never needing to change any pronouns in song lyrics! #idlethoughts #justBeingMe #meYouHerHimXeUsThemZemAnythingGoes #freedom #expression

You can’t control people who are free.And you wouldn’t need to when you are free. #idlethoughts #letYourselfBeFree #dontGiveAnyFucksToWhatDoesntDeserveYourFucks

At the end of the game of life – or, maybe, even during – you’ll realise that you got more value for money fun from the […]

You know that thing about the meek inheriting the Earth. I think they meant us people who love our neighbours, and our countrypersons, and our fellow […]

We ARE the meek who are inheriting the Earth.And ironically almost none of us associate with any religions. #idlethoughts #theWeirdosAreWinning #loveIsOurReligion

In the grand scheme of things, today is just a day. It’s okay if it didn’t go according to your immediate plans. There’s many tomorrows to […]

Most humans seem to understand they have freedom of choice, but they still often freely choose the things they don’t want. What’s up with that? It’s […]

Remember that free will implies your will.Not your society’s will, not your religion’s will, not your parents’ will, not your lovers’ will, not anybody else’s will. […]

You’re one in a frikkin infinity! So live your god blessed life in as full a way as you can, you absolutely delightful, amazing, beautiful, insecure […]

I stopped seeing the point of going to temples and churches when I realised God was wherever I went. #idlethoughts #godlovespiritselfpeacesoulexistenceenergy #callItWhatYouWantItsAllTheSameThing

When you’re upset, the smallest thing will set you off. And when you’re elated, the smallest thing makes you giggle. #idlethoughts #practiceBeingHappierMoreOften #followTheMostGigglyPath #thatsWhereYourFunLifeLies

Stop taking the clowns who don’t believe in you so damn seriously! #idlethoughts #whyWouldYouEvenPayAttentionToPeopleWhoClearlyDontSupportYou #liveFreely

I’ve stopped relying on life for my happiness and started applying my happiness to my life. #idlethoughts #youGetWhatYouGive #lifeFollowsYou #lifeHack

A lot of people don’t seem to think that living is a purpose. #idlethoughts #lifeIsTheMostMiraculousEventInExistence #stopConfusingLivingWithExisting #liveForYourselfInsteadOfTheSocietyThatWantsToTrapYou

“How are you always so calm?” you ask.Well, as it happens, I’m not always calm.I’m just never dramatic about my worries. #idlethoughts #weAreAllHuman #youGetToDecideHowYouWantToBehave

People will believe about you what you believe about you, so maybe just believe in yourself and then you won’t need anyone else to. #idlethoughts #thatTookAWeirdTurn […]

I celebrate anyone who does their best to control their life. And mostly ignore anyone who tries to control mine. #idlethoughts #justBeYou #letPeopleBeHappy #letYourselfBeHappy

More and more people seem to want more noise in their lives. It’s like they don’t know that’s what’s drowning out the voices of their souls. […]

When all is said and done, there is only one important day in anybody’s life. That day is today. #idlethoughts #nowIsTheMomentOfPower #letItMatter

When you believe in yourself, you won’t have any need to put others down. #idlethoughts #believeInYourself #letOthersOffTheHook

As long as you’re using other people’s behaviour as an excuse for your own, you’re not free. #idlethoughts #beTheYouYouWereBornToBe #beWhoYouWantToBe #chooseYourLifeDeliberately

Everybody who opposes feminism is acting out the exact reason why it exists. #idlethoughts #listeningIsASkill #freedomIsUniversal

Here’s a not-so-secret to healthy relationships. Stop trying to figure out what women want or what men want or what humans want, and just pay enough […]

Growing up, there were a lot of things we were so sure of, we never even thought to question them. In hindsight, we really should question […]

Work on yourself so that you can be more proficient and able to achieve and attain more of what you want out of life. In the […]

Comparing yourselves to others is not unlike looking at the life journey of an individual antelope and the life journey of an individual lion, and trying […]

How many days would you keep chopping wood with a blunt axe before you decide that sharpening it would be a good idea?How long before you […]

It’s true that you are a natural uplifter. And so is everyone else. We want to inspire, and to be united, and work and play together. […]

Just because you prefer different things from life than anyone else doesn’t make you or them wrong and right. Just different. Like we’re meant to be. […]

Heaven must be the most boring place in existence. Just full of sober, white, heterosexual prudes. I’m thinking the other place has Netflix. And chill. ‍♂️ […]

The most beneficial skill to master is the ability to consistently adapt to your new situations and your new desires from life. #idlethoughts #evolutionIsEternal #youAreCompletelyCapableOfLivingLife

It’s normal in this day and age for humans to get stuck in their negative emotions. Buck that trend for a change, and get stuck in […]

Living in the moment means you stop waiting for better days and enjoy the best this day has to offer ☺ #idlethoughts #nowIsTheMomentOfPower #lifeFollowsYou

Take life in stride. There’s always a way forward. And you’ll see it when you stop getting too distracted by your immediate reality. #idlethoughts #letGoOfEverythingThatDoesntServeYou #findYourPathOfLeastResistance […]

Your better world begins when you stop complaining about what “they should do” and start asking “what do I have the capacity to do”. #idlethoughts #itAllStartsWithYou […]

Pay attention to really, really, REALLY young children who aren’t yet showing symptoms of brainwashing, and you will notice how free and joyful and happy and […]

Really being human, authentic, the real you, is stripping all those layers of bullshit from since you were mere minutes old. You know, that bullshit that […]

It’s telling that 95% of the people I engage with on social media post the kind of funny, uplifting, real, progressive, body positive, sex positive, LGBTQIA+ […]

Polyamory is inclusive of monogamous and single individuals. In a universe where people can have as many intimate relationships as they desire, inevitably there will be […]

Just letting y’all know that I’ma be celebrating #prideYear now. Every year. #idlethoughts #loveIsMyReligion #weAreAllHuman

All of life is a dress rehearsal. Strutt your stuff, sugar! #idlethoughts #liveYourHeartOut #liveOutTheMovieThatIsYourLife

Enlightenment is the continuous act of waking up. Now and forever. Amen. #idlethoughts #evolutionIsEternal #neverStopGrowing

Life is like a Pixar movie. It caters to everyone, and the more aware and intelligent one is, the more nuanced the situations and the jokes. […]

A overwhelmingly vast amount of people are more concerned with being perceived as good people than actually just being good people. The obvious irony is that […]

A super simple way to be there for people is to not judge them, not force your opinions on them, not shame them, not break them […]

How do you define success?Because I’ve met very successful artists, and successful healers, and successful business owners, and successful parents, and successful performers, and successful storytellers, […]

If you would just accept that your reality and your reality alone is the only thing that should be important to you, you will find your […]

It often seems like the same people who say they’ll believe it when they see it, exclaim “I can’t believe it!” when they do see it. […]

I really don’t know how anyone can look up at the stars and be aware of the vast awesome universe that we are part of, and […]

I’ve definitely become more of a “yes human” in my old age.Not a “yes to everything human”, of course. But a “yes to what I want […]

It doesn’t matter what you know and how much you think someone else should also know what you know, if they don’t know, they don’t know. […]

I’ve come to realise that I do care a lot about what other people think. I just don’t care what they think about me. ☺ #idlethoughts […]

Opinions are very personal things and are only ever of importance to the person who owns them. Once you accept this truth, you won’t push your […]

Do you realise that you can have control over what you choose to have control over?It just takes patience and practice at first. #idlethoughts #youHaveGotThis #empowerYourself […]

Life is one long, immense, immersive game of improvised comedy. #idlethoughts #flowWithIt #sayYes #nothingSeriousGoingOnHere

They say you’ve got to kiss a few frogs before you meet your princess/princeling/princeman. I disagree. Kiss some butterflies and komodo dragons and alpacas as well. […]

Think of humans. Think of dogs. Many different dogs. Many different humans. All types of shapes and colours and furstyles. All still the same species, all […]

I don’t ever know what’s going on inside your head. I only know what’s going on in mine that I think is going on in yours. […]

A lot of people long for the good old days because they’re just blind to the fantastic new days. #idlethoughts #youSeeWhatYouFace #maybeStartChangingYourFocus #haveYouLookedAroundYouLately #thisUniverseIsMagnificent

This applies to everyone but especially for people without colour: your prejudice shows when you treat a person like the stereotypes you think they are instead […]

It might not be that you’re only attracted to really badly-behaved girls, boys, and enbies. It’s more likely that it’s the confident-in-themselves ones that are oh […]

Some people care so much about precisely defining labels that they miss the human they’re defining. #idlethoughts #respectThePerson #respectYourSelf #labelsAreSemanticHumansAreReal

If you know somebody who has achieved something you want to achieve, the best thing you can do for yourself is engage with them about their […]

In the story of your life, you will play many roles, particularly when your story intersects with other people’s stories. Just remember to give your majority […]

I like to treat adults like they are the mature, self-aware beings they claim to be. #idlethoughts #treatPeopleWithKindness #youTeachPeopleHowToLoveYou #justBeAwesome

Your kids will have a better life than you could ever dream for them. If you would only give them the freedom to dream for themselves. […]

Anybody with half a brain must be very aware by now how many humans born in recent years refuse to conform. Why would anyone still insist […]

Look, I can’t speak for women nor any other person who’s experienced oppression but I do think we didn’t ever want to be treated “equally” in […]

If you tell me you’re a feminine grey-bearded multisexual fruitarian bat jackal, my only response is “cool, how would you prefer I address you?” #idlethoughts #youDoYou […]

Opinions about what shade of eye shadow make my eyes pop are always welcome. But if you want to enforce opinions about how me and mine […]

I dress for comfort and decoration, not for modesty. #idlethoughts #radicalExpression #dressUp #dressDown #haveFunLookingGood

If you are someone who puts down men for doing “girlie” things, what are you saying about the women who do those same things? #idlethoughts #behaviourHasNoGender […]

Someone who cannot imagine themself having as much fun as you, will, straight-faced, accuse you of having too much fun. Chew on that. #idlethoughts #youDoYouBoo #dontPayAttentionToPeopleWhoBringYouDown […]

Consent is, in effect, mutual respect of each others’ desires and boundaries. #idlethoughts #consent #respectYourLovers #respectYourSelves

Let’s talk about gender. You understand the concept of binary, as in hot and cold or light and dark, and you understand that while we conceptually […]

You can do whatever you want.I’m doing the things that enhance my happy. That’s what I want. #idlethoughts #chooseHappiness #chooseYourFocus #chooseForYou #chooseYou

More people could do with taking responsibility for their choices. Nobody else is in charge of you, your thoughts, your actions, your feelings, or your life.Those […]

I like odd ducks #idlethoughts #weirdosAreTheBest #yourVibeAttractsYourTribe

The key to a loving relationship is to love so powerfully that you don’t need love in return. Imagine if all your partners and yourself loved […]

Everything is evolving. If you haven’t realised how much our fantastical world has evolved just in your lifetime, you’re seriously not paying attention. #idlethoughts #openYourEyes #theUniverseIsBeautiful […]

People place far more importance on words than the energy behind them. I mean, anyone can say whatever they want, and mean none of it. #idlethoughts […]

My desire is for every human to feel completely loved. #idlethoughts #letLoveIn #loveFollowsYou

When it comes to people, I’ll admit that I’m very picky about personality traits and interests. Not so much about body bits though. I’ll nibble on […]

In case you still need to hear this, it’s perfectly okay to be a goodie-two-shoes or a nerd or a geek or goth or punk or […]

Love, by its very nature, is unconditional. The moment you bring in even one condition, you are no longer talking about love. And that’s what trips […]

Time is unending. You have an abundance of it. Sure, we break it up into manageable units like centuries and decades and years and months. But […]

I’m not the friend who listens passively to you shit. I’m the friend who will keep throwing you ladders in the form of advice and insight […]

Them who can’t love me at my weirdest, don’t deserve me. ☺ #idlethoughts #weirdosAreTheBest #friendsMustBeWeirdToo

My safe word is No. #idlethoughts #justStopNoQuestionsAsked #chooseForYou

I’m not precious about my memories. I mean, I’ll remember and indulge in my past experiences but I’m always more keen to create new memories than […]

So many of you take on the impossible task of trying to change other people for your own benefit when it’s so much easier to instead […]

Life is an ongoing process of deciding which of our limits to hang on to, and which ones to let go of. #idlethoughts #liveYourBestLife #happyNewYear #happyFreshYou

This was indeed the year of magic. If 2020 gave us anything, it was the belief that ANYTHING can happen.

We are ALL the chosen people. Every. Single. One. Chosen.

You should know that it doesn’t matter whether you’re the same gender as me, or the same race as me, or the same nationality as me, […]

This little anecdote always pulls on my heart strings every time I tell it.There are two types of people. Those who say, “I went through it […]

You can’t hate and love in the same breath.

I would say that I’ve mastered the subtle art of not giving a fuck. I mean, you know, I do care and I want to see […]

I trust you to do what’s best for you. I don’t need you to do what’s best for me; I’m already doing what’s best for me. […]

We could all stand to remember that while valuable things do often command a higher price, simply hiking the price up on something doesn’t make it more valuable.

Children know how to love much more freely than the most mature adult. We should rather learn from them than try, like most adults do, to […]

Don’t begrudge a thing just because it takes longer to come than you want. Make peace with your inevitables.

I much rather be full of myself than of anyone else. Just me?

Facebook is like McDonald’s. It’s cheap and basic, fills the void without providing meaning, I often speak lowly of it, but I still find myself indulging […]

You know, I can’t tell what a person looks like based on hearing their sneeze. Ah well. Must be another human.(except to know they’re a dad. […]

Caring for someone doesn’t mean I’m going to feel bad with them; That doesn’t help them nor me. Caring can mean I will feel unequivocally good […]

This probably goes without saying but I must express how much of a fan I am of experiential learning over theoretical learning. We can always be […]

You can’t stay small and be big at the same time. You can’t stay here and be there simultaneously, either. You make the choice, moment by […]

Time passes regardless. It does not matter if you call this arbitrary year 2020 or 4173, time will still pass.

Not that it’s any of your business but just so you know, I identify as all the sexuals.

A relationship (whether platonic, sexual, or romantic) that demands you change any of your other relationships for its self-centred sake is a red flag y’all aren’t […]

Here’s the thing about systems like Facebook and Twitter: these and other social media platforms began with the premise that people could look through the looking […]

All in all, I’m pretty damn gruntled with life 🥰 #idlethoughts #lifeIsJoyful #lifeFollowsYou

I think we need to accept the fact that humans are not as evolved as we were led to believe. #idlethoughts #evolution #becomingEverMoreCompassionate

Just because a being has learned how to talk does not mean one can hold meaningful conversations with it.In case you needed to know that. #idlethoughts […]

I heard this recently and paraphrase it now for your pleasure. Good expression, whether done with paint or performance or speech or protest in the streets, […]

It’s so cool observing the different cultures as I go on my daily walks. The people who snap out of whatever they were focused on and […]

Nice guys don’t finish last. Guys who say that aren’t nice; they’re delusional. They play the victim card and when that doesn’t work, they play another […]

It does amuse me how passionate humans are about searching for reasons to be upset. And then complaining about being upset on top of that! You […]

The difference between travelling the path of least resistance or the one of most allowance is the difference between looking for the dark spots to avoid […]

Most people mostly play background characters in someone else’s movie instead of starring in their own. And, of course, THEN making special cross-over guest appearances in […]

I think one of the best characterisations of God is not that they’re an old overseeing parental type person, but that they’re an eternal newborn, continually […]

Every human is an exhibitionist. Hear me out. You want to be seen. You want to be heard. You want to be acknowledged. You all usually […]

I identify as human. I love humans. I am platonically attracted to humans. I am sexually attracted to humans. I am romantically attracted to humans.

I don’t get asked “what do you do?” as much any more, thank the gods. I did have some cute responses though. My two favourites are, […]

My life changed for the best when I started saying “I love you” to others more than needing it said to me. #idlethoughts #selfLoveIsAllYouNeed

How ’bout remembering you’re divinity? 😉 #idlethoughts #correctedlyrics #thankyou #thewayitis

It’s a little ironic that the more sensitive you become, the more insensitive society thinks you are. Purely because you become immune to the bullshit. You’ve […]

I’m a lover, not a liker. 😄 #idlethoughts #heartsBeforeHands #weirdedOutByPeopleWhoOnlyLikeReact

I’ve realised, through my journey of life, that the more I love myself, the more love I have for others. The funny thing is that’s kinda […]

You know, I kinda don’t really know what Donald Trump sounds like. I’m so disinterested in him that I only really know him through memes and […]

Tweenaged me was rather insightful when he, I, he proclaimed that he, I would grow up to be an entertainer. Not an actor. Not a performer. […]

I look out into the world at large, and I’m pleased to see things so different to the world my misfit child self grew up in. […]

Well. It’s been a week since Father’s Day and there’s still a distinct lack of people noisily protesting that all parents matter. So disappointing. #idlethoughts #justForFun […]

Should I ever call you weird, know that it’s one of the highest compliments I can offer you. With this one word, in the moment that […]

Jealousy means that you wish someone else doesn’t have it as good because you haven’t yet figured out how to have it as good. If, instead […]

As much as there is a strong racial element to this war, let’s not be blind to the fact that it’s about the Oppressed (which include […]

#allLivesMatter is inclusive of #blackLivesMatter You can say with your words that all lives matter but if you are actively contradicting anyone who says black lives […]

If you really believe that all lives matter, then you accept that black lives, being one of the all, also matter and therefore have no problem […]

It’s six months into the year and so far 2020, visionary year that it is, has given us two major kick-ass lessons. Well, reminders really. The […]